I don't know what to do. My mom won't let me move in with my boyfriend and he can't move in with us... 😰

22.04.2016
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shish
Shilissa·Мама подростков

I've been there and it's hard. I hope ur talk goes better than mine did with my mom. It got physical and wasn't pretty. But in the end it was best cuz we both realized the living situation wouldn't be good since I already shared a room with my sister. I had to grow up fast and I was ok with that.

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teenmom081416

I'm gonna talk to my mom about moving out. I already Have but I'm not gonna stop until I show her that's what I really want @shish

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shish
Shilissa·Мама подростков

I'm with the girl above, either push through it or emancipation. I don't know ur boyfriend or how responsible he is but I would look into low income housing for urself and the baby and getting emancipated. At least try to set urself up for ur baby in a way that u don't have to rely on him if he bounces. I'm not saying he would cuz I don't know him, but u never know what the future holds. Personally I don't think ur living situation is good. It doesn't sound like there's much room for baby and it's quite cramped which is just gonna cause all sorts of tension when the baby gets here. It sounds like things will go south quick and I'd hate to see u go through that. U already made the choice to have a baby, ur mom is just gonna have to get used to u growing up fast and figuring things out on ur own. U have to be an adult now, regardless of the fact that ur still in school and only 16

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teenmom081416

The difference is that I'd be here part time and at my boyfriends part time and I'd still go to school cuz my mom is watching my baby and my boyfriend doesn't live far. And I'm getting a job. I'm not depending on anyone to take care of me and the baby I'm depending on myself. And I'm not a quitter. I'm in the parent program at school and everything. @machelle137

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mommy2bee1696
elie·Мама дочки (9 лет)

the sad thing is that pregnant or not you are a minor and if you want that kind of freedom and to make you're own decisions maybe look into emancipation, because you're mom is still responsible for you and you're baby till you're 18 its shitty but either push through it and wait or emancipation

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machelle137
Misty·Мама сына (9 лет)

I left home at your age and it was the hardest part of my life. I had to quit school and find a job. I finally went back when I was over 30 and got my highschiol diploma and AA. it is not worth it to leave. stay home as long as you can, at least you will have help and support. I fought my mom every inch of the way and now I see how right she was. Do not trust that the father will take care of you because that's what I thought. it takes boys longer to grow up than us women, their brains can not comprehend what ours can.

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teenmom081416

Yeah.. I'll be 16 next month and my boyfriend is 16 and it's not like i wouldn't let my mom see her grandson. She would see him everyday and me and like it would just be easier. I share a room with my older sister and I sleep on the top bunk and I keep my clothes in pile by my dresser so my sons clothes have somewhere to go. And I don't even have room to put a yoga mat down what am I going to do when the baby comes. If I were to move in with my boyfriend we would have our own room and bathroom and possibly a room for the baby.

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tater4414
Eternity·Мама двоих (9 лет, 9 лет)

Well i mean unless he has his won place and can support you guys the way you are is probably best. Although it isn't fun it's best for you and baby

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braydensmommy6116
Kassidy·Мама сына (9 лет)

exactly! I mean it was our mistake to get pregnant before having a stable situation, but still it sucks... my man has a FULL TIME job and I work part time and we still haven't been able to move out :/

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teenmom081416

He is 16 like me.. @tater4414

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tater4414
Eternity·Мама двоих (9 лет, 9 лет)

Does he have his own place? How old is he?

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teenmom081416

Family's need to be together 😔😏.. @misskass20

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braydensmommy6116
Kassidy·Мама сына (9 лет)

I'm in a similar situation... I'm 20 yrs old and my mom won't let him live here and his dad won't let me live there. it REALLY sucks.

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