I was 20 when I had my first! Your going to be awesome, and if he doesn't think none of that. Then forget her.

@mommy.to.be.041016, I been told her that

did you tell her that ? she should understand as long as y'all are committed to your goals that'd all that matters plus someone's gotta be there to watch the baby as well and you definitely want someone you trust watching that baby . I don't see why she would be flipping her top about the situation then

@mommy.to.be.041016, she thinks that I stopped him from going back to school when he already said that he gone let me finish school first then he is going to go back .. he letting me finish first because I'm in school to be a radiologist and when I finish I would be making good money

you are so much stronger than i. i would have been so pissed and hurt and the conversation would end ASAP. you were respectful toward her amd kept the peace, so in the long run...you were the mature adult and your mom was immature. YOU GO GIRL!! 💪💪 kill em with kindness i always say 😊😊❤💙❤💙

@melinda2011131416, I'm only 20 @mcrowell0970 thank you that made me feel better

@tt194210, wow!! that hurt me just reading it! im so sorry this is what you're going thru. Remember, if youre happy, fuck the rest! you are with him...not her. she needs to chime down talking to you like this but remember you dont have to deal with it. this is your life, she has her own.

dont listen to that bs , she does love you its just tough love and she knows her baby girl is growing up starting her own family kinda sounds like she has a problem with letting go . like a momma bird nesting her eggs she holds them till they hatch and then she knocks them out the nest to teach them how to fly and they have to learn the adult life on their own . she does have a way of putting things though shes gotta learn you and your man got it going for y'all honestly I didn't even graduate but I'm here taking care of my baby engaged a roof over my head I'm making it just fine till little man gets old enough I'm gonna go back and get my GED your mom shouldn't hold you responsible for him doing what he wants though

My mom literally preaches to me, about having a fourth child. Except it's how my kids are mistakes, and how my husband of almost six years ruined my life. The problem is he has changed me in ways, I can't explain. Without doing so! I don't stick up their butt, and they don't like it.

Do what's best for you guys, I don't know how old you are. Sooner or later you will be more mature than her.

@melinda2011131416, and she continues to text me even though I'm not replying back

I'm so sorry! Your mom sounds like mine, and you know what else. You're the mature one for trying to leave it alone. This makes me wanna cry, scream, and punch at the same time. Wow! I'm sorry

tough

@mommy.to.be.041016, yes @junesmommy15 man she know how to hit where it hurts ... but for her to tell me that I destroy everything was tought

is that your mom saying those things to you?

I feel like your mama care about you. I don't feel like she should blame you for trapping someone who have their own mind.

I'm sorry you're going through this luv.

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