so I have a question for everyone... so if you cought your husband talking to a strange girl that…

I'd leave.

but if you still love him?

Id be on the news for some pretty bad stuff haha ..jkjk, but that is very serious

yea I was the same way... yea it happened a year ago but it still bothers me...

and he doesn't understand why

you can still love him but obviously he doesn't respect you and if you have already told him to stop and he didn't, that should be enough to walk away. there are a million guys out there that will treat you and your kids with respect and give you love that you deserve. it's hard, I know but dont do that to yourself.

id get very upset and probably would wanna leave unless he can gives me a reason to trust him again.

I'm already doing it myself... :(

that's what he's doing but hes not doing a good job.... he says he's trying but he's really not...

The same thing happened to me. I tried to keep it together for my twins' dad but it escalated to the point where he got another girl pregnant when I was pregnant with the twins and he chose her over me. Walking away was the healthiest thing I could do. Trust me, I almost ended up on a Snapped episode, but in the end I knew I needed to walk away. It makes me sad seeing situations like this because you never know what's going on on the other side. Try getting in contact with this girl, be very polite and get information on what's been happening between them and that will help you fully understand what needs to be done.

I did, and she said that he was begging her attention and she didn't know that we where back together...

Sounds like he was in a relationship with this woman. That's cheating on you. Stay strong and follow your heart.

he's done other stuff too that I kinda got over because he did it when we broke up... and he doesn't see it as cheating.. I do..

how sad.. he can't even apologize to you and admit he did wrong. I'm sorry you have to go through that.. he's in denial and it doesn't get any better

he did say he was sorry,and that he fucked up..

honestly I'd beat my husbends ass lol