@missdee, SMH! It's a hassle! I already paid for the center and decorations! The decorations will be a lost but I'm a see about the center! I hope yours turn out good! Good luck!

I'm frustrated too!! I was on the verge of feeling this way cause of how many people already said they aren't coming. But my friend calmed me down! I do have people helping/paying for the shower, but it's still a headache. If you paid for stuff see if you can get your money back. Tell people where you are registered they could at least just buy/send you gifts!

@kierra26, Exactly that's what I was thinking!

the reason i didnt have one...n i got everthing i needed. the money u put in a baby shower can really go to the stuff u need for your baby.

Right!!

veto! planning and paying for your own shower, veto!

@abombmomof2, Thanks boo! I have a coordinator for everything it's just all the money is coming out my pocket and who knows who's going to show up! I can put that money towards stuff for her!

@towens921, SMH! I just don't really feel like it! Plus the money I'm putting into it can go towards my baby stuff!

@cherryfield, Nope not in my case! I had to pay for a coordinator and everything else!

I know I have to do my own. I was thinking the same thing

Nooo I'll help !

unless someone volunteers to do everything, don't have one. the mom to be should only provide a mailing list, do the registry, and show up.

@sweetmommy26, Yeah I understand! You should have one!

@sweetmommy26, See what I mean? My cousin was going to cater the food now he not answering the phone! My center is already paid for! I'm just so over it!

It's my first baby by the way and I was so looking forward to this 😔

I don't even know if I'm having one. I have people here "trying" to help me find a hall and they haven't done anything yet like wtheck why say you gonna help and not do nothing like time is ticking. Now I don't think I'm having it at all 😭