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Jessica
My little brother is a very bad kid. I mean VERY bad. He graduates high school in the beginning of June, then one week later he will turn 18. My brother lives in DC with my dad and a few other family members. Because my brother has caused my dad so much heartache over the past few years my dad plans to kick my brother out when he turns 18. I've had several talks with my dad and he is not kidding. He is so fed up with my brother and wants him gone. My brother is aware of this and has done nothing to plan for the future. I think my brother took it as a joke at first, but now sees my dad isn't joking. My brother doesn't want to go to college and has mentioned stuff about joining the military but has no plan in place. He keeps hinting that wants to come to Florida and stay with me but as much as I care about him, I know it wouldn't work. My boyfriend and I live together and my baby will be born just days before my brothers birthday. I can't deal with a newborn and a defiant teenage boy. I know my brother and he likes to blame all the problems on my dad when it's really him misbehaving. And I know it won't be long before him comes into my home disobeying the rules and being disrespectful. I wish I could welcome him into my home and help him, but by doing so I think it'll make things between he and I much worse. I'm not his parent I'm his sister, and I feel like I'm turning my back on him.
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ashgreen13617

he will probably be mad for a while but he need to fall flat before he can better himself hardest thing I did was telling my sister in law to get out of my house it was a year ago and she still is mad at me but not her brother anymore. @ayyeblackberry__

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ashgreen13617

he will probably be mad for a while but he need to fall flat before he can better himself hardest thing I did was telling my sister in law to get out of my house it was a year ago and she still is mad at me but not her brother anymore. @ayyeblackberry__

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ayyeblackberry__

Thanks. I know it's not a good idea taking my brother in. I just don't know how to tell him no even though he swears he will do right and that he's changed. I just don't want to look like I'm turning my back on him. @ashgreen13617

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ashgreen13617

me and my husband took in his sister when she was 17 we did everything for her she hadn't graduated high school yet so we made her go to school. paid for everything for her and he had a one year old at the time. it almost broke our marriage we finally had to kick her out for all the lies and disrespect. I would not recommend taking him in. you need to worry about your life.

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mommakate1

so times you have to let them fall so they can grow. I have a similar situation... u never want to be the enabler

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tater4414

Had a friend who had the same delema with their sibling they took them in and it made everything really really bad. It ruined the relationship they had and got them in serious trouble :/ I would suggest telling him to go to the military.. They pay good and when he gets his head in the right place they even pay for school.

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