My little brother is a very bad kid. I mean VERY bad. He graduates high school in the beginning of June, then one week later he will turn 18. My brother lives in DC with my dad and a few other family members. Because my brother has caused my dad so much heartache over the past few years my dad plans to kick my brother out when he turns 18. I've had several talks with my dad and he is not kidding. He is so fed up with my brother and wants him gone. My brother is aware of this and has done nothing to plan for the future. I think my brother took it as a joke at first, but now sees my dad isn't joking. My brother doesn't want to go to college and has mentioned stuff about joining the military but has no plan in place. He keeps hinting that wants to come to Florida and stay with me but as much as I care about him, I know it wouldn't work. My boyfriend and I live together and my baby will be born just days before my brothers birthday. I can't deal with a newborn and a defiant teenage boy. I know my brother and he likes to blame all the problems on my dad when it's really him misbehaving. And I know it won't be long before him comes into my home disobeying the rules and being disrespectful. I wish I could welcome him into my home and help him, but by doing so I think it'll make things between he and I much worse. I'm not his parent I'm his sister, and I feel like I'm turning my back on him.