My SO and I were talking one night, and he asked me this question that I thought was weird and he didn't like my…
My SO and I were talking one night, and he asked me this question that I thought was weird and he didn't like my answer.. So I'm going to ask you ladies and see what you all think.
His question was: "When you go into labor and you're having complications and one of you, (me and baby) won't make it, who's life would you save? Yours or the baby's?"
What are your answers.. Cause apparently to him I chose the wrong answer... (I chose baby's)...
Vanessa·
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I'm guessing in his eyes would be to save u BC u guys could always make another baby.
Brittany·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (19 нед.)
@nessa_475, I know that but still.. I couldn't have that on my shoulders knowing I chose my life over my baby's and then people will find out and say rude hurtful things to myself.. That's how fucked up this town is..
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My babies !!
missing82user·
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There's no right or wrong answer. He would rather have you because you're his partner, the one he's been with and would have a hard time being without, and having another child is possible. In certain cases people can't deal at all because they see so much of a person in the child they have. What people say won't matter unless they've had the experience. As a mother most moms would of course choose their child over themselves, we have a different bond with our baby than our SO. It's a connection they don't understand. Not saying every SO would choose their love over the baby or every mother would choose their baby over their own life, but majority of the time that's how it goes. Us as mothers don't even 100% know how we'll feel in a moment like that
Keneesha·
I've been asked this before.
I said my babies.
My SO then asked "how come" and I said "because I want this baby to grow up and know why I fell in love with you. I want him/her to love and cherish life the way I have. I want you to show him/her photos of me and you and tell him/her what my childhood was like and why I want him/her to have a better one. I want you to show him/her that God gave you the greatest give of all, a gift from the person you loved most."
My SO sat in silence after that. So I left it at that.
Tamisha👥·
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My babies. Me and my SO already had this talk and if it comes down to it then I would want them to do whatever they can to save my babies.
Jaziyus' Mama ♥·
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he should be thinking positively anyway, not negatively. but I think you chose what was best in your opinion. thats all that should matter.
Gabi·
My baby's life comes before mine. And I'd hope my bf would respect that