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1 week and 2 days after having an emergency c-section my boyf started to talk about how much weight I'm losing. That I…

1 week and 2 days after having an emergency c-section my boyf started to talk about how much weight I'm losing. That I need to eat more, which is true bcuz I'm pumping breast milk. But he also noticed that my butt, not just my stomach, is getting smaller and said that he at least thought I would keep it (my butt) so that he'd have something to play with. He really enjoyed my pregnancy bcuz 1. I was pregnant with his first child and 2. my body gained some "thickness." After he said that about my butt he also said "well I at least hope your breast stick. if not it's back to regular you.....which isn't that bad." I didn't say anything. I just got up and went to the bathroom. Now I'm wondering if the way I looked b4 I was pregnant was too skinny? What if go back to that weight post pregnancy and he doesn't like it? And should I eat bigger portions to retain some of the weight I gained but work out so it sticks to all the right areas?

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realdancemom

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You are beautiful and perfect however your body turns out ☺️

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ljmommy

ArmaniМама сына-младенца

I felt the same way. I had my baby two weeks ago and I wasn't eating as much at first which ended up affecting my milk supply but also I was pretty small before and all my boyfriend talks about is how big my butt and boobs got and I wonder if it all goes away if he will be okay with it or will it change things.

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Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was…

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