Up just thinking how things are about to change for me. It all seems so over whelming. I have looked into to daycare already just in case I need that. Found one that sounds promising. Did my registry already which was so time consuming and already a gift came in the mail and it was the stroller and car seat I wanted from the dr. I work for. I was so over joyed. I seem to have a lot of family support but it's always the one u want to be more supportive ie...my child's father that's slow with it. He is supportive but I just don't know what he want out of this. We have been friends for a long time and pretty much feel obligated to continue to deal with each other but now we have a child on the way and things need or have to be different. Time is no longer of the essence she will be here soon and I need concrete answers. I think it's talk time and time for me to stop being so damn nice!
knowing what needs to be done is a huge step in the right direction, however doing it is sometimes a lot harder. that's always been my problem, I know what I need to do but it's so hard and uncomfortable to do it! good luck!! you deserve nothing less than happiness and I hope you can achieve it! :)
prepare yourself for all outcomes good and bad. I call myself having "the talk" just like you're describing and his response was to pack up and leave. not trying to scare you just be prepared