I feel like I'm having anxiety about my baby shower. My sister is planning everything and I'm okay with that. Im more…

@emkasting you too. ☺

Oh so she's that kinda way haha. My grandma is that kind of person too so I understand @goodbyelullaby regardless I hope you have a fun shower

@emkasting it's ok everybody expects things that that from her. lol

Wow she wasn't even gonna tell anyone?? That is so crappy. I'm so sorry girl you deserve to have anyone and everyone there at your shower supporting you. Especially with what you've been going through with your relationship @goodbyelullaby

@emkasting my aunt promised that she would come and yesterday we reminded her she said she couldn't make it. my whole family is mad at her because she wasn't even going to tell anyone.

right, as long as you're happy with it though hopefully she'll be happy :) a lot of ppl love hosting, I just never did.

If people can't be grateful for what u do for them then u don't need that negativity in your life lol

@michellevaldez4750, I love doing parties but then I feel like the person im doing the party for will be disappointed because they might not like how it turns out.

I hate hosting get togethers because of that. Its a lot of work and to have ppl do stuff like makes it not even worth the effort to me :(

@jjmom12345678, I feel the same. why ask if your not going to write it down and stick to it.

I am to I hate how people want an invite and then tell I their not coming I had quite a few people do that to me I was pissed

Ive had a couple friends ask a long time ago what the date was going to be so they could definitely come but now all of a sudden they can't come. One of my coworkers isn't coming either because she is working full time now that I am on bed rest (we are closed saturdays) I tried to invite between 40 to 50 people because I know you only get about 50%to show up but I feel like not even 50% will be there. I'm also nervous we won't get the things we really need. @emkasting @goodbyelullaby @jjmom12345678 @michellevaldez4750

My shower is Saturday and I'm feeling anxious about it too. I'm scared no one will come. I've already had a couple people that told me they would absolutely be there back out as of yesterday. I feel so crappy about it

I feel the same way

That's not selfish at all, ppl these days are so inconsiderate and will RSVP then not show up. It makes it hard to prepare food and activities etc. and the whole point is to be able to have what you need for baby so I think most ppl have that thought.

I'm going through the same thing. some of my family isn't even going to show up after they told me they were so my brother is going to invite some people he works with.