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I'm so sick of always being the tough mean parents and never seen as the good fun parent. I have a schedule for my daughter. she take her nap anywhere from 12-2 of she does not take it than she does not get one...her bed time is 8 sharp. But no....once my husband gets home or is here she takes her nap when he gets frustrated with her and if it's bad time he will put her either too early at 7-7:30 or well after 8. Then gets mad when I say anything and says whatever I'm not going to get bitched at. Like really!?!?!?! I can't believe this flipping crap!!! I'm so over it and done!!! I hate his parenting.
Rant over....
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@maybaby2016, @junesmommy15 @mommabeardurso, Thanks ladies but it's really more than that. My daughter is mentally and physically handicapped she is supposed to be in a schedule and it's not just that it's also the fact that everything I say or want for my daughter he goes against it...when she grows up she will see him doing that and not take anything I say seriously or that what I say matters because dad says other wise. Most the time when he does this it's when he's fed up with her not even just because he's playing or spending time with her...it's because he wants to just sit and cant take her tantrums so he puts her down or puts her in her room witch makes her tired from screaming then bed early. I understand where you girls are coming from but since I have been with her since birth and he has only been there for her since she was 6 months it's like he has to do the fun things and whatever he wants while not thinking about the consequences because he has to make up for the lost time. It really irritaes me.
@maybaby2016 Took the words out of my mouth. My husband did this also. I realized that was his time with HIS baby so I left it alone. Now he is happy when he's sleep😂
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