:::RANT:::****warning**** I'm so sick of always being the tough mean parents and never seen as the good fun parent. I…

@junesmommy15, no it's okay. I should have put all that in the first post as well I was just so upset I didn't think about it till after I cooled. its just so upsetting that I can't stand it anymore because I'm always the bad guy.

Ok that's different from my situation. I'm sorry.

@maybaby2016, @junesmommy15 @mommabeardurso, Thanks ladies but it's really more than that. My daughter is mentally and physically handicapped she is supposed to be in a schedule and it's not just that it's also the fact that everything I say or want for my daughter he goes against it...when she grows up she will see him doing that and not take anything I say seriously or that what I say matters because dad says other wise. Most the time when he does this it's when he's fed up with her not even just because he's playing or spending time with her...it's because he wants to just sit and cant take her tantrums so he puts her down or puts her in her room witch makes her tired from screaming then bed early. I understand where you girls are coming from but since I have been with her since birth and he has only been there for her since she was 6 months it's like he has to do the fun things and whatever he wants while not thinking about the consequences because he has to make up for the lost time. It really irritaes me.

Yes, choose your battles.

@maybaby2016 Took the words out of my mouth. My husband did this also. I realized that was his time with HIS baby so I left it alone. Now he is happy when he's sleep😂

you may not like what I have to say....

I used to have this problem with my husband and my son (now 5) my husband would come in from work and wake my son up sometimes or keep him from going to bed, etc. we would fight and argue, I was always the bad guy but I just had to stop caring so much. a schedule is important but being happy is more important and once I just went with it life seemed easier for me. so my son was off schedule about an hour or two, oh well. he got to spend time with his dad and we didn't have to fight. I just made a new schedule that worked for everyone. it really wasn't the end of the world like I had once thought. good luck, hope you can figure something out.