So my bd family are starting to be aggravating bc they don't like the name we chose for OUR baby girl. It is taking everything in me not to cuss them the hell out. Sorry I don't like ghetto, I like different.
No Pete isn't in his name his name is Xavier Kyle I told the hubby how I feel and he says he will talk to her cuz he's not okay with it either @d3bkjazzjonamom
@scidg3, I agree, but this well b my last. However this is the first time I have ever had this issue.
@terneshawilliams, exactly. @jborton I thought Pete was his middle name. If it isn't than yea she is way outta line
we are choosing not to tell ppl because I want my husband and I to love the names we choose and not end up changing them because fam and friends don't like them.....I think we have all 3 names but we keep telling ppl we don't have a single name. hehe @d3bkjazzjonamom
But Pete! I mean not even close to Xavier when we found out we were pregnant they wanted me to name him Oliver and I said no to that I told them I don't like the old fashioned names and now I regret telling them what we decided on for a name pretty sure we will be keeping the next ones a secret till birth @d3bkjazzjonamom
@d3bkjazzjonamom exactly ! not even just a job I don't want no one looking at her n start discriminating cause of her name and her skin because people still do that ..
@jborton, my stepson name is Xzavier, well Karl but we call him Xzavier. And just like ur mil wants to call him Pete, they want to call her Jonnie when ur name is Jonalyn which I'm somewhat ok with bc I call her Jonnie Bean, but I'm like really it's not tht serious. @terneshawilliams having the same issue name sounds to white smh I let them knw she needs job when she gets older.
I agree. However, I don't mind the nickname bc I will b calling her it to, its just interesting to me how they can say something about her name when their kids have made up ghetto sounding names I have heard
girl it's okay let them hate your baby name they not carrying her for nine months or going through labor ! .. my family don't like my baby name they think Isabella is for white girls (rolls eyes) in all honesty I don't care as long as me n my husband is satisfied with it then they have no say in what I should name my child
I'm having the same problem with my mother in law so she keeps saying she's gonna call him Pete when his name is Xavier and I'm not okay with it and about to come unglued if I hear her call him Pete @d3bkjazzjonamom
Lol people did that with every name I chose that's why no one knew her name until she was born and everyone loves it and if they didn't oh well and no I wasn't accepting nicknames either
had the same problem with my husband's aunt and sister. it's none of their business this is my baby and I can name him whatever I want smh the nerve of them
lol, I knw right. Every time I talk to his sister she just has to tell me she doesn't like the baby's name and she won't b calling her tht. I'm like fine whteva just as u knw we aren't chging her name.
My family is the same and my response is " well this baby coming out my cuchi not yours"
@jborton, tht is way outta line. And I'm glad ur hubby is gonna say something.