It's not like they will have the same first name, so it will hardly ever even come up. and when you tell them you can say we picked the middle name nicole, just like her mommy has. I doubt they would say anything if you present it that way, it's clearly a family name. we are giving our son the same middle name as our neohew, because it's a family name.

@jnh199243 i say do what you want. its just a name. who cares.

@jnh199243, I get that but just know you child will be who she is and represent that name with her personality and lessons she learns in life. She'll be her own version of Nichole 👍🏾😎

@jaixi, very true! I guess because we are so close to their family it seems weird.

a million girls name are Nicole I'm sure that doesn't bother you ... So why should this ?

@cameale81, thanks girl. I really want to give her my middle name. I would have given my oldest my middle name but my hubby's mom was on the verge of death and I decided to honor her instead.

I fell in love with the name Nathan and already two people have used it for their sons but guess what? If this is a boy I'm still going to use it lol just because they took the name they KNEW I WANTED doesn't mean Ima give up what I want for them. They clearly didn't do it for me.. Anyways, that being said, I say do what you want girlie! You deserve to name your baby whatever you want!(:

Think about it, this is your last child. How will you feel about it once baby girl is born will you have regrets about her name. do what makes you happy @jnh199243

@_stayingparkerstrong_, I feel like I shouldn't but hubby is worried about what will be said...

they arent the only people who used that name. why would you need to change it?

@canaryv, @cameale81

My hubby is worried that it will look bad when they ask my daughter's name. But they took it from my name for their daughter after I told them what we had.planned to name our daughter?!

I wouldn't change it either.

I wouldn't change it :)