I had an abusive relationship with my baby's father. I finally got out last month.
I'm trying to decide what is the moral thing to do about his family. His parents and sister live in Michigan. Jason lives in Florida. I'm in Texas.
Should I contact his parents and let them know about this baby? Should I do it now? maybe wait a year or so after she is born and then contact them? Or should I just leave it alone and not bother even contacting them?
If you had a 21 yr old son who got someone pregnant, would you want to know about your grandchild? Or would it just be too awkward?
He did show me an email he sent to his mom when I was 5 months pregnant he finally told her about having a baby on the way, however he did not tell her in the note who I was. And he did not share with me her response. I have no idea what kind of lies and junk he has said about this whole situation.
I've asked my parents what they think and they say I shouldn't even bother. But something tells me his family have a right to know.
What do you ladies think?
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I think you should tell them! His parents didn't do anything to you! I know how my mom feels about her grandkids and it's indescribable! You never know how much help they're willing to give and if it goes sour you can always walk away and be able to say you tried!
I think you should let it go only if you want the father out of your child's life completely. It will only open up old wounds and you don't need that with a child especially if they are going to fight you for the child (if they do). If he shows no interest in the child then leave it be.
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well he told them so they know, I would try to get in touch on your behalf whether or not they will care is besides the point if you are gonna tell then best to tell them sooner then latter they may want to be in her life and so the longer you wait they could get upset not because you of necessarily @lyricsmommy616