I get so mad bc all because I had a miscarriage at 13weeks my last pregnancy, my friend keeps…

@mother.of.angels, is your decision if it makes you happy do not listen to negative stuff I had a miscarriage and I waited 3yrs to tell people and when I got pregnant I was planning not to tell anyone after 4 months, but I was so excited that I told everyone... so do not mind what others say is your decision

thanks @lacana-15 and sorry for your loss

@mother.of.angels is okay :) just be happy and don't worry about anyone

Do what makes you feel the best, its hard for people sometimes that have never been through such things to understand that it's not OK and they need to keep those comments to themselves. I had someone tell me I should wait to have a baby shower til after th

The baby was born because I had a still birth....so they just don't understand what its like and can come off very insensitive. I am sorry for your loss

But don't even think that you probably will lose your next baby . That you had a miscarriage before doesn't mean you will have problems with your next pregnancy. Tell whoever you want about it not believing there could be something wrong but that everything is perfectly ! Pray a lot . The lord is mighty enough .

omg that is just too much thats messed up! I am terribly sorry for your loss. and thank you girl. @dueaug28th

your exactly right thank you @astridoll

In A Way I Agree With Her Because Sometimes & You May Not Know It But People Speak Very Negative & Wish Things on You . My Boyfriend Told Me The Same Thing & I Was Upset But I Then Realized That It Makes Sense People Don't Want 2 See You Happy But Still Do What's Best For You I Agree With Your Friend Maybe Not That Late But Until You Know Everything With The Baby Is Good

My Friend Lost Her Last Baby & She Didn't Tell Anybody Until She Was Past 10 Weeks

It goes both ways mama, in a way if you don't tell other ppl then if there is a loss they don't have to go through that heartbreak too, but if you don't tell people and something goes wrong then you have to go through it alone and that's not fair to you, but when baby comes everything is going to be so perfect!!

^^ i definitly agree with @mommyof10627. i did the same thing.... If you tell the people here its different but like on fb or any other social media where you know ppl personally is alittle different. its true there is alot of bad ppl out there and haters and not everyone wants to see you happy. alot of envy and jealousy. you never know what they might be going through you know. i waited till I was far along to tell any type of social media and im gonna give you an example. There was a girl i went to hs with that got pregnant. she announced it right away. i was far along and hadnt said anything about myself. She goes to her first app and doctors werent ablr to hear a heart beat...... she was devasted. and she admitted she hated seeing everyone else pregnant or with their kids because she didnt get to see hers. My aunt in law, has been trying to get pregnant for the longest time she is alot older now so who knows if she will ever have. im young and and got pregnant young. when i annoced my pregnancy she didnt even say congrats. she never asked how I was doing. she didnt even come to my baby shower. she ended up meeting my son on christmas when he was already 4 months old. ive never had a problem with her or anything. my moms said it was better that way because i didnt need any negative or jealous thoughts

I think is more of a personal choice. I personally waited but she has no right to tell you that. I wouldn't be super excited and I'm bad at keeping secrets anyway. With your health issues especially, your family needs to be aware. Just ignore her momma!