Unless you have had to personally deal with infertility don't try to justify someone who is being ungrateful about the gender of their baby. A lot of women have to suffer with only one line on their pregnancy test rather than two, so anyone complaining because their perfect miracle isn't the gender they wanted is pretty selfish to me. As I said, BE THANKFUL YOU CAN MAKE A BABY because so many women can't. I just got so much heat for telling a woman she is lucky to have a baby. So many women wanted to tell me im wrong for saying be thankful. It's really sad. A woman with infertility problems prays and wishes every single day that she has the same gift you do. Be humble.
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@txyogagirl, I'm so so happy for you!! It's crazy how husbands sometimes just know we're having a boy! My hubs knew we were having a boy, too, but I didn't guess because either way I was so excited! Your little boy is so blessed to have such a loving family! I'm so excited for you 😊
@tmariewein, thanks I'm due sept 2 with a sweet baby boy. I can't wait. I'm super girly so when I asked people to guess gender they all said girl even my husband I told him and everyone from day one I just know it's a boy and it was I think God gives you the sex he think will be good for you and I have prayed so many years and struggled about the way all men are trust issues and such ( not my husband just men in general the way they think) that's why I waited til I was 31 to get pregnant my husband is wonderful and so happy I finally just let go and let god take over me. But I think that's why God gave us a boy and I thank him for it every single day. I hope I can have more boys and girls some day.
@london1010 I totally agree with you! If a woman on here doesn't agree with what you have to say it's like you committed a murder or something! They immediately roast you and treat you like you're stupid! I can't handle it sometimes and honestly sometimes I get the urge to delete this app over it!
I don't get it either. Even without fertility issues the only thing I hoped for was a healthy baby! To each her own I guess, I chose not to even say anything because it's like walking on pins and needles when replying to some of these women
@London1010 thanks girl! I'm trying not to let them get to me but at the same time it frustrates me that they could justify something so rediculous! "Gender disappointment" makes no sense to me!
@Ilovemykids24, you are so welcome! I just wish those women could understand how hard it is to struggle! I'm sorry you're having a hard time with your pregnancy! I hope things get better for you girl! This too shall pass and soon your wittle blessing will be here and it will all be worth it!
I saw your comment. People were taking up for the fact that she said she was told she was having a girl but in reality she just posted yesterday that she was finding out the gender today. She did an at home gender predicter and apparently she got girl so I guess she believed it. Don't let them get to you! And I couldn't agree more with this post!
I can't thank you enough for posting this. I posted something similar to it and some ppl went of the deep end, saying they have been hurting and so on with there pregnancies. I understand some woman have hard pregnancies (i am having a hard time with this one) But I'm 100% thankful for this blessing. Again, thank you for posting this.
@txyogagirl, I am so so happy for you girl! Congrats!! And I agree, as long as my sweet baby is happy and healthy, gender is the last thing on my brain!! When are you due?
@tmariewein, I agree they all need to be thankful. I didn't have problems but the 2 months I wanted to be pregnant and it didn't happen yet were devastating for me so I can only imagine how some women feel. I was so great full to have a positive test last thing on my mind was gender.
@winsy13 I have had problems with infertility as well and I promise you girl, it gets better!!! You will have your sweet miracle soon! If you need any support I am here for you 💜 sending loads of baby dust your way ✨✨
my mariewein, aww thank u so much yea we r just so happy and can't wait.