Rant: I can NOT FUCKING stand the people that say "You shouldn't be worried if you have a boy or a girl, as long as they are healthy"
Like No Fucking Shit!!!! Of course I care if My Child is healthy or not that not the fucking point it's not like I gunna jump for joy at the fact my babies organs are on the outside of his body (used as an example) but it's a boy and all I cared about was that he had a penis!!
Like it's fucking common sense that all mothers care that the child they are growing and are going to be caring for are healthy.
But we are allowed to celebrate that our child is a certain gender and healthy, like you Really think someone that just found out their child isn't healthy is gunna give two fucks about the gender at that moment!!!!
Goodness People, Try Not To Be So Ignorant Next Time!!!!
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@dawnsurvivor, I get that, but when someone starts the conversation with "I'm glad my baby is healthy but I kinda want ..." or the other person ask "Are you hoping for a boy or girl?" and you simply reply with the gender you want and they jump straight to "well you shouldn't care about the gender, you should only care if the baby is healthy or not" like hello, you asked me what I wanted..
I don't think anyone means anything by it. I know a lit of people tend to be obsessed over gender so other people kindly remind them that there are more important things. I know in my case I've had 5 losses and I'm finally pregnant with my rainbow baby. I'm not finding out the gender because I'm just happy to be having a baby at all. lol
@twinscomingsoon, I went back and edited my post so it wasn't confusing. I re read it and I see how you could misunderstanding it.
@littlefootloove, oh i see. My mistake :)
@twinscomingsoon, I'm very happy to hear that your brothers baby boy is making steps to a healthy path, unfortunately this is a misunderstanding, I used the situation as a example in this post. I'm sorry, but I'm very happy to hear he is getting healthy
My brother was born with his intestines outside his body. He was in the nicu for a little while but today he is healthy and 100% fine and healthy. He just had a rough start. Hoping for the same good fortune for your little one! ❤️
Amen! Seriously people are so ignorant 🙄