Honestly it felt like a pinch but something you can very much handle. Nothing painful. My husband said he couldn't ever feel it.

Ok thank you @kaelyndakota and @marce88

It didn't hurt and my partner said it felt weird to him. I read the threads get softer over time. Mine is new so that may be why he said it was kinda uncomfortable. He still finished though so I guess it wasn't to bad lol

I had an iud and it doesn't hurt to get put in or removed once you've had a baby since your cervix dilates. And my fiancé never felt it.