My OH is taking 2 weeks holiday starting 9th May, my due date is 11th May and then after them two weeks holiday we can only afford him to have one weeks paternity because he doesn't get pay from work but from the government, I'm so scared if my baby now comes 2 weeks late, it means my OH will only be home with us for a week😟 I'm so scared and emotional right now.
Is this a line??? Could this be my rainbow? Oh my goodness, I'm crying right now. AF isn't due until Friday so it's super faint. ☺
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Starting TWW. Anyone else? I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
It's strange to think I'm 26 weeks... I had my first at 33 weeks... so 7 weeks from now... only 14 weeks until I'm full term! My goal is to make it until at least my daughters birthday... I'll be 36 weeks at that point!
Tick on my vag!!!! Ahhhh! Every fricking time I go outside, I get a tick on me! Ugh!! I'm so over those nasty little buggers and it's only the first week of May! Are they this bad where you live? (I'm in VA)
Vicky·
can he not take more holiday? 😕 xx
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Nope😣 @vicky1995 xx
Vicky·
awww no! I would be soo gutted... my OH is taking pretty much a month off... most of it is holiday but his work is good and understanding.... bless you xx
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my OH would have had a month off if we could afford him to have 2 weeks parternity!! it's because he hasn't been with Aldi for 2 years so he has to go through the government for the week off!! and it's only 139 a week which is half his wage he would get if he worked!! 😣 @vicky1995 xx
Vicky·
oh that's such a shame... I can't belive how rubbish maternity and paternity pay is for people! especially considering others have children that don't work a day in there life and live comfortably... makes me mad! 😡 try not to stress over it though 🙂 xx
jodie·
My oh only had the weekend off with our son he's self employed so it wasn't an option with us 😩 this time he's got to take a week off to do the school runs while I recover ☺️ xx
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it's so hard😣 @jodiec @vicky1995 and I hope.the baby comes around his due date now xx
Rachel·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
Same with my oh with my son he went back to work abit here and there when he was 4 days old as he is also self employed. Depends how much he has on when this little one arrives to what he will have off but he will also have to help with school runs. Do you have other support when he has to go back to work? @leigh-amyxo xx
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Yeah I will hun @rach0402 xx
Rachel·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
That's good you will have support around you. Your full on mummy mode will kick in and you will be bonding and figuring out routines of feeding etc will keep you busy and before you know it your oh will be home from work when he does go back 😊 @leigh-amyxo xx
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Yeah I suppose @rach0402 xxx
rebecca hattle·
My oh is having 1 week paternity and 2 weeks holiday but they are letting him start from the day of labour so no official set date?? could this be done for your partner? X
rebecca hattle·
@leigh-amyxo,
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no he had to put in his holiday forms like 3 months ago, it's so annoying @mrsripper xx
Megan Houston·
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We're the same my OH is using 2 weeks holiday instead of paternity cus he only gets statutory paternity pay (which is so shit) and I'm due May 11th too so if I go over he has guys booked off at the end of May and is saying he won't be able to be off if she comes when they're off!!! So I'm pretty nervous too xx
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mail me if you ever need a chat hun, I no how your feeling @megsssimo xxx