Why Isn't My Stepdaughter Being Properly Cared For?

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So I just dropped my stepdaughter off to her mom and I had to tell her mom to make sure when she drops off my stepdaughter if she can please take her a bath and do her hair cuz her dumb/nasty ass mom leaves her hair the same for 3-4 days without washing it then she's gonna tell me she does I'm like no u don't cuz when I take her rubber bands off she has dirt built up and she comes in dirty underwear...I feel so bad for my stepdaughter😔it's like she's not my responsibility but I take better care of her smh🤔

Jessica cordero · Answer

@ashleyhunter, The only reason we do that is because the baby doesn't come over that often anymore. It's been like 4 months since we last saw her and before that whenever she was coming, she didn't even wanna be here. She would cry for her mom as soon as she got here cuz she's not used to us anymore. So when we buy her stuff, we had to send it cuz if we didn't, she wouldn't even fit in it anymore by the next time she came and it would just go to waste.

Ashley · Answer

Really oh no see I use to do that not we buy her clothes and toys but they stay here so she goes back in the clothes she came in but it's always clean I don't send her in our clothes unless I really have to like if I didn't wash her clothes yet @jaycee17

Jessica cordero · Answer

@ashleyhunter, I've tried showers too but it still makes her cry. Idk what happened, when she was a baby she loved the water and now she's 5 and hates it. Right? We buy her new shit all the time and she ALWAYS sends her to us with dirty clothes that are too small and even shoes that are too small just so we can go keep buying her new things.

Ashley · Answer

Yesssssss that's how she was but I had to get her calm and use to taking a shower not a bath cuz it hurts my back.....but yea the dirty clothes it's like come on I always wash her clothes and send it back clean always like it's just nasty to send back dirty clothes I'm so pissed like how can u do that its so sad @jaycee17

Jessica cordero · Answer

Omg my stepdaughters mom is the EXACT SAME WAY. It's disgusting. We almost think something happened to her with her mom though cuz all of a sudden, she cries whenever my bf tries to give her baths. It's like she's scared or something and then her mom always sends her with dirty ass clothes that don't even fit anymore. It's sad.

Ashley · Answer

I know it gets me so mad cuz her mom has her weave done and everything but can't fix her own daughter smh @stephyg82

stephyg82 · Answer

I feel bad for the little, she's just a child

Ashley · Answer

Yeah u r right about that I do love her that's y I treat her like my own @therockamom

Ashley · Answer

I know poor baby....but I won't I'm just going to keep raising her like I've been doing and try not to think about how or what's going on at her moms😔but thank you @showersoverflowers

Chelsea · Answer

Just because you have a baby, doesn't mean you're fit to be a parent. Really sad that she cares so little that she can't even take proper care of her own daughter. Go you for being the loving mom that she needs. It's not about blood, it's about heart.

C. · Answer

first off, poor little thing. that's awful. second off, of course she is your responsibility. If that's who her mom is, then she needs to look up to you as a woman of grace. Keep doing a good job but do not discredit the importance of you being a step parent hun.

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