last Thursday I had an Obgyn. she told me I'm dialated a centimeter. should I start preparing? I'm 33 1/2 weeks
@michellevaldez4750, hahaha, I was nervous when they told me that last week that I was 1-2. I was like nooooooo... 🙈 guess I need to start mentally preparing!
But like preparing how? Lol. There's a lot of things that go into preparing for baby. If you don't have your hospital bag packed, I'd suggest doing that just because you're 33 weeks. Washing things that you'll be using for baby if you haven't yet. I just don't know what you mean by preparation. Though you have only dilated to 1cm and that could mean nothing because it could take you until 40 weeks to dilate anywhere near where you need to to have a baby, doesn't mean that you couldn't be one of the ladies who dilates in a week and is having a baby. I guess I'd just suggest getting everything ready for baby that you'd need to whether they will come soon or not.
I got sooo excited when I was pregnant with my first son and the Dr told me I was dilated 1 cm. I thought I was going to be going into labor in the next day or 2! lol it was more like 2-3 weeks later!! but I was 18 and didn't have a clue. @candacelouise
@proudmommy2344, yeah what do you mean? Doesn't mean baby is coming any time soon. Dilation can take weeks if that's what you're asking.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@candacelouise, yeah, it definitely becomes more "real" when that happens :)