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time for a rant: I hate when people try and force me to change my mind about my decision about breast feeding. Now don't…

time for a rant: I hate when people try and force me to change my mind about my decision about breast feeding. Now don't get me wrong, I have nothing against breastfeeding but it's not what I want. If I tell you I want to formula feed just leave it at that. Don't try to throw "facts" in my face about what's better for the baby. I WILL throw facts in your face about my daughter who is 1 1/2 years old and who was formula fed and is very smart. It's mine and my husband's decision not yours. ugh I hate people like that. If you keep trying to force me to decide to breastfeed then I will hate you as a person anymore and it will have nothing to do with breastfeeding. You don't see me in your face trying to convince you to formula feed instead of breastfeeding so why do it to me? I've already told you I'm not going to.

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kay.forsha

KaylaМама дочки (1 год)

@countrymama166,

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kay.forsha

KaylaМама дочки (1 год)

exactly. same here.

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countrymama166

ElizabethМама дочки (4 года)

I agree I was healing from a c section so my husband got up with her every 3 hours during the night so I could rest

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kay.forsha

KaylaМама дочки (1 год)

I preferred formula because it was easier for me and it allowed for my husband to bond easier with our child. @countrymama166

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countrymama166

ElizabethМама дочки (4 года)

I think people should leave it up to the mother it's our decision since it's our body and not everyone is comfortable with it I personally like formula feeding and because everyone pressured me into breast I tried it and hated it because I felt like it wasn't my choice

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kay.forsha

KaylaМама дочки (1 год)

@countrymama166, I think the same thing.

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countrymama166

ElizabethМама дочки (4 года)

Everyone tried to push breastfeeding on me with my daughter and I refused plus she wouldn't latch and I had medical issues so I formula fed and she is just as smart as a breastfed baby so all that stuff is a load of crap in my opinion

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tyler2016

DeVoria

well I have had the same approach.. I feel the same way.. my choice was that I was going to try that while we were in the hospital.. but afterwards formula, my friend does it and it drained her, to sleep.. you made the right decision it's your choice no one elses

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babyanthony24

Gabi. 🤓Мама сына-младенца

Omg preach! I didn't want to for my own reasons people doctors nurses will throw facts in your face and I'm like ok? Lol. My son is still just 4 months but he is perfectly fine and thank god doesn't ever get sick yet. Do what you want. Ignoring them is the best. Like I had a mother who smoked while pregnant tryi to tell me that breast feeding is sooo much better like bitch lmfao I ain't taking advise from a woman that think smoking while pregnant is ok 😂😂😂

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kay.forsha

KaylaМама дочки (1 год)

@lil_bigmama, @babymay2016 I set out to make a point with my first child that it doesn't matter how you get your nutrition as a child, you can still be just as smart. and honestly she's too smart. she can say about half the alphabet right now.

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kay.forsha

KaylaМама дочки (1 год)

@junesmommy15, my best friend breastfed and I don't mind. But I don't appreciate going to the doctor and everytime she tries to convince me I should breastfeed this baby and I told her that me and my hubby decided and agreed we did not. and then she tries to go on and on about the benefits about breastfeeding and I just prove her wrong by pointing out those same qualities in my daughter who was formula fed.

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babymay2016

babymay2016В ожидании первенца

"Breast is best" nahhhh... FED is BEST. As long as you are feeding your baby, nobody has a right to say anything about it! You do you, momma.

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lil_bigmama

lil_bigmamaМама сына (3 года), беременна (35 нед.)

preach it girl as long as ur baby belly is full that's all that matters

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missing98user

missing98userМама сына-младенца

Vice versa. My family pissed me off about me breastfeeding. I did it anyway and my baby turned out perfectly fine. People are always going to have something to say. It's not their child so in the end their decision doesn't matter

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