Sorry but if he doesn't want to change u need better for u and that baby

I would separate from him. Speaking from exact personal experience. Men who fear child support have no intentions of supporting the child regardless of what they say and will not outgrow they drinking anytime soon. Like I said I went through this exact scenario 6 yrs ago and watched friends go through similar ones

you gotta do whats best for that baby you cant worry about his feelings its his job to help with the baby and if hes throwing shots back like that thats alot money spent that can go to your child so yea take the chold support out in him he dont pay yea he goes to jail but he needs a wake up call do you want your child to know that as a father or make him get his ass straight and the child see whats right you can co parent and have no issues but youve gotta decide my baby not have what they need or a father to provide