Well I posted the other day about my cousin being pregnant and I was worried because she already…

and before anyone says well that's awful to say. I've been there. I miscarried 3 Times. I was with a God awful guy and was stuck, literally stuck in the relationship. he was abusive. busted up my face the night I finally left. however now that I look back, I think God knew those babies didn't need to grow up in that kind of environment. it was a blessing for me.

I understand what you're saying. It's the shittiest thing to say but sometimes the truth is shitty. God bless her and her situation.

I do feel so bad for her. I honestly do but I am kinda relieved that She won't have to bring that baby up like that. our whole family hates her husband so we are all kinda glad in a way.

I totally get how that is an acceptable thing to say at times. I have(really had) a friend that just had a mc and it was probably for the best. she's been a meth head for years, has two boys that never have clothes or shoes. we're always having to give give give for those kids because neither my friend or their dad works or have a stable place to live anywhere, they stay high all the time. The dad had to have all of his teeth removed because he had meth mouth (rotten teeth due to smoking meth) and he's in his late 20s. it's a shame and they were excited about having another baby...smh.

sometimes things happen for a reason is what I'm getting at

I hate to hear that. I always say every baby deserves to be born but not every one deserves to be a parent.