Am I the only one who doesn't care to list as private at the hospital? Of course I want his dad and…

I'm the same way @jaycemommy

I am listing private because when I had my daughter there was some serious drama that's only gotten worse in the last 5 month's. I'd love if everyone could get along long enough to visit but I know it won't happen so I am saving myself the stress.

@irishtwinmom13, that's understandable but drama or not you would think a new life would bring peace and happiness to grown ass people at least for a few hours

You would think so...Lord my brother and his baby mama dang near got asked to leave the hospital by the staff. she got mad because he brought his girlfriend. I tried to schedule their visits opposite each other. they showed up at the same time. my father was drunk so I didn't want him up there because him and my mother and my brothers dad can't get along and he would have brought my grandma and she hates my mom with a passion. that would have been a very bad visit. so I didn't tell my dad I had her. his ex wife and my little sister post pictures all over Facebook. he called me the next day cussing me out screaming at me calling me everything under the sun. so I'm just saving myself from all that this time lol.

the hospital I'm delivering at is strict. for the first two hours after the baby is born, nobody can visit, just who was in the room with me. and after that they said I can make a list of people who can or can't be there to visit if I want. the only person who isn't allowed is my "mom", everyone else is welcomed.

@kelseys, yeah I def want a few hours with him to ourselves after I pop him out lol but after that I don't mind any visitors.

@irishtwinmom13, woah, that is most definitely plenty drama so I don't blame u