Uhh my man just stresses me out to the max, I made great money before I got pregnant, and he makes good money but I'm the type where I save save save and he spends like it's going out of style, I just love having fall back money in case something happens.. I have my daughter next Friday if not before then and I have to worry about him spending, our bills.. he doesn't see a problem with spending it's driving me up the wall! I don't understand how a man can throw things like taking care of his family and paying the bills in my face when that's what he supposed to do! I don't wanna go back to work, I was some what excited to be a stay at home mom, being able to spend all my time with my daughter, but I'm really wanting to go back to work bc I can't live like this, I wanna travel when I want to, or shop when anyone needs anything, I wanna pay my car off and just live comfortable! seems impossible with him! I just had to vent and I can't to him bc he doesn't understand and it's none of my families business!
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I get you and him but you gotta find middle ground for sure!
Well we share a bank account, and I'm the only one that has access to it, but I do that my phone bill is 150, and I always take 200 and put 50 in a shoe box he thinks I have some shoes in, but it just is bugging me that he spends so damn much and is inconsiderate of other things going on! idk I've just always been the type to never depend and have fall back money.. so not living like that stresses me.. like if we're going someone where and we get a flat tire, are we gunna have to miss a bill bc he went over board on spending! I could be over thinking it, it is his hard earned money.. but ahh I like being comfortable! @mygiftof2016
there's ways to get around a spender girl just gotta think
same here! I just take his checks or if he cashes them I exaggerate the bills lol.. like light bill was $79 and I told him it was 150 lmao that's how I get even more! I also have a secret account. another trick I use is ordering our stuff online and get deals but I give him a different amount and add way more shipping charges which I mostly get free hahahaahaa it works tho 😉 or I take money out n hide it behind my pictures in the frames so when he checks the balance it's way lower! I also have direct deposit so I call and have them transfer money into a saving he has no idea I have!!
I've been there. my hubby is a live in the moment type of person. we always got into it over money and broke up many times bc of it. eventually, I had to learn to let go and what ever shit he got himself into, he would have to dig himself out all the while I'm still being supportive. it was hard but eventually we learned a balance of living in the moment as well as saving for a rainy day. if you both try, things can fall into place