Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
So I just went through my boyfriend phone while he was sleep & im pretty sure we all know what I found....him talking to multiple other females in a relationship type of way. When he wakes up should I act normal? Or confront him about it right then & there.?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Kelsi·
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I think you have a right to be upset
Tiffany·
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Nope! I would be pissed too!
Carissa Dabbs·
I didn't freak out on him or throw a fit. I just told him that it bothered me and he got pissed and told me I'm being stupid. Now I can't help but wonder of there's more going on than he is letting on.
Carissa Dabbs·
@kelsicutie,
Carissa Dabbs·
I thought maybe I was over reacting, but his reaction kind of made me wonder what he has going on. @1sttimemummy
Tiffany·
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@babyhorton16, definitely! if my SO were to get defensive about it I would absolutely think something was going on. but, I'm also working on getting over jealousy issues so I know a lot of other people would think differently. :/
Carissa Dabbs·
I've always trusted him and never said anything about anyone he talks to, I let him talk to who he wants, so it's weird that he would get mad over this one girl @1sttimemummy
Brittany Kelly·
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no girl you're not overreacting you told him from the get go you don't want him being friends with her and having to keep her on Instagram I'd be upset too me and my fiance had problems like that so we deleted fb and made an Instagram together and we both enjoy it ! I doubt he's talking to her on Instagram cause he could've forgotten to take her off that if he's not on it often but if you confronted him and he called you stupid for that that's disrespectful as hell and he needs to block her he could've said things differently like okay babe well ill take her off not calling you stupid! ugh men sometimes I don't think your overreacting I'd flip my top over that tbh
Brittany Kelly·
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if it were me I'd be creeping on his page to see if she commented on any of his photos since yall been together if it was before y'all got together and she commented on one of his photos I would kinda blow that off or tell him to delete the comments
Carissa Dabbs·
I deleted it so I can't get back on there, but We have been together for almost 3 years and he has only had instagram for maybe a month @mommy.to.be.041016
Brittany Kelly·
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oohh see that's not good he's testing your trust just like certain men would do , he could've followed her or she followed him depending on if his page is private or not mines private so I know who requests to follow me but if its not private it'll just pop up as a notification that someone has followed you but still in all he doesn't need her on there idk girl did he ever take her off?
Carissa Dabbs·
I don't know, I deleted instagram so I can't see. I haven't spoken to him in over 2 hours either. @mommy.to.be.041016
Shannon Catullo·
Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
Nope ig carries a lot of problems u r right to get upset