Sorry for the long post! Okay. My SO is aloud to be friends with females, and talk to females, because I trust that he knows what's appropriate and what's not, and I trust him. There is only ONE female that I don't let him talk to or have anything to do with because she has tried from the very beginning of our relationship to break us up because she hates me. Well my SO has had an instagram for a while and I never really got into anything but Facebook, but I figured I would give it a try today and made an account. I followed him on there and went to look at his followers and people he follows and the first person to pop us was the ONE GIRL I don't want him speaking to. I deleted my instagram and I told my SO I'm upset and he thinks I'm being stupid. Am I in the wrong for getting upset?