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I hate when my family says "oh I love n miss you and the girls" when they've never met my kids and never write and ask…

I hate when my family says "oh I love n miss you and the girls" when they've never met my kids and never write and ask about them.. The only way they know anything about them is from me posting about them on Facebook..

When I first got pregnant at 15 my family seemed to care until I miscarried, then when I got married and pregnant at 19 they started bashing me and hoping I lost the baby which didn't happen I ended up divorced at 20, then with my last pregnancy I named the baby somewhat after my mom and they told me I was being disrespectful, but yet they love n miss us.. I know they are family but I'm really getting tired of them and them not being supportive..

I don't even know how I was being disrespectful to my mom by naming a baby after her just without the first letter.. I don't have anyone to talk to about it, I have no friends that ever want to hang out, I'm starting to get depressed and my family saying different things is starting to turn my depression into anger.... Sorry I just really needed to vent..

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meagansimone

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Sometimes you have to let go. I have no communication whatsoever with my mom because of the way she acted. You need a good support system. And any who EVER wishes for you to miscarry your baby is not worth it. They don't deserve you.

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