Why is it that the good loyal women fall head over heals for an amazing guy and end up hanging out…

Why is it that the good loyal women fall head over heals for an amazing guy and end up hanging out with them and kissing them and then they text you later saying that they can't do nothing but text because their friends would give him shit about it its like damn its your life not their life my heart literally just broke because I really liked this guy and because I'm pregnant he don't want to hang out with me or anything he just wants to text