no judgement please.. I have been in a relationship for two weeks now but have been going on dates with my SO for 7 months. I feel like I'm ruining my relationship because I'm terrified of having sex now. It's been a year and almost a month since I gave birth to my son. I'm scared that it will hurt and that I will get pregnant again. Though I know he won't leave me like the sperm donor my son has as a father. I'm just not ready to go through all of it again. He has promised me he won't hurt me but I'm still scared. I'm not sure how to make a compromise when it's me that isn't sure about doing things.
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@mommastone, I believe you're right. he is scared about the relationship part due to the past. so my past relationship maybe playing a part into my fear. thank you for replying and making a great suggestion 😊
It sounds like you're not ready for another relationship. The only way to get past this is to change your mind and the way you see things. Talk to someone who has a steady good relationship. Be positive. I know the past can haunt but don't let it affect the now. I know it's hard. I hope you can get past this. You can! :)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
pregnant so soon.
Did anyone else become pregnant very soon in a relationship? Me and my SO have only been together 6 months. I have a 4 year old son and he has a 6 years old son. We love eachother to death, I'm just scared of what family would say.
I am so upset! Went for my 33 week checkup and they told me I have 2 stds! I have not been with anyone other than my sons dad and he says he has been faithful to me I have been crying all morning!
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
Keep the baby or Abortion.......
I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in ab...
I am so happy to have helped in any way. Good luck hun!