So irritated. I bought two tickets for tonight's dodger game hoping that would be enough of a hint that I wanted to…

Id put my foot down. I got great seats at my hubbys favorite hockey team right next to the glass. Expensive ass seats and his best friend and him share the same birthday.. My hubby wanted to trade my expensive ass seats to sit with his friend and his immature girlfriend in the nose bleed section.... I said hell no. That is rude and honestly disrespectful to me. Yes it was his birthday but i dont really work all that much due to my medical reason so my checks arent the best and i worked to hard to save and surprise him.. No way was i gonna put up with that.. We ended having a much better time anyways since we didnt move. And his friend and his gf fought the whole time. Saw them on the other side of the rink. So glad i wasnt there.

@lildarebear, Good for you! Glad he listened to you. I mean they weren't that expensive but it's still the point of me feeling like we can never do anything alone without him trying to drag people along and whenever I bring it up, he just calls me antisocial or something. 🙄 Told him the other day I feel like we're losing our connection and he said its cuz our sex life has gone down. Well WHY would I have sex with someone who I feel ONLY pays attention to me when he's trying to get some?! I just can't anymore, he's driving me to my breaking point.

well you're most likely not going to sit next to them anyways since you bought the tickets. tell him how your feeling, men need to be told they won't get it til it's too late lol

@lucyyxoxo_, they actually somehow managed to get tickets in the same row as us!! We're sitting pretty high up so I'm sure it wasn't hard but their seats are literally like 4 seats away. 🙄

Probably because you're using hints instead of actually saying what you want.

It may be hard but saying "I'd like to spend some alone time with you" sends a totally different and specific message than buying tickets and hoping he knows what your unspoken expectation of what that means is.

oh man.. hopefully the people in between you guys are loud so they don't allow them to have a convo. lol

@jaycee17, totally understandable! Im now starting to feel pain during intimacy. And my guy is starting to complain. I had a girlfriend that stopped after being pregnant for 3 months.. I tell him, he is down right lucky i lasted this long. And you arent being antisocial! You just want time for you two, before another little one comes along! Nothing wrong with that. If anything suggest a dinner afterwords so you get alone time at the game and he can pay for the meal after with his friends, as a tiny compromise. But im really big with spending alone time and nothing makes me more mad with my guy then making it into a double date with his friends, never my friends but his! Which i cant stand 97% of his friends cause they are so immature. And their girlfriends are worse. And nothing is bad than being 22 and being around high school drama girls at 17 and 18... 🙄😒

I don't think it's a guy thing though, as a direct communicator I need to be told how your feeling. I can't figure that stuff out by guessing based on non verbal queues. But that is the stereotype. *shrug*

@tinitazz, He knows how I feel already. I've told him a million times before. I was just hoping that after all the times I told him, me buying 2 tickets instead of 4 would show him I was being serious. Guess not.

@lildarebear, OMG that's how I feel too! His friends are soooooo annoying, I literally can't. Being hormonal definitely hasn't made me like them anymore either lol. Especially with the guy tonight, I already know how it's gonna go. They're both just gonna drink the whole night and be annoying and im gonna be stuck with his friends pregnant gf pretending like we have stuff in common.

It's still a hint. You can tell him a million times over how much attention you need and how much time you want to spend with him but if you make the effort to create time without telling him that that's what you're doing you'll only be left disappointed. That would be no different than if one of your kids put a toy by you and got mad at you for not picking it up and playing with them. You didn't know, they didn't tell you.

They simply expected you to do something based on a nonverbal action.

@jaycee17, and thats the worse. When you have to sit there and look like you actually give a damn about the gf.. Like she isnt your friend. You two never talk. Im very quick to tell my guy no to double dates. Sorry but i dont care to go out and talk about you two and what your life is like. I wanna be with my man and have some sparkle and romance. 😒 And worse is when the gf are competitive! Like they could be not as far along as you but their baby is so much more advanced then yours. Ive honestly have had any bad experience with double dating pregnant you can think of. I finally lost my shit and said enough. Since then he doesnt even surprise me anymore with look who is also going!

@lildarebear, he just sent me a snapchat with that guy and a 12 pack of beer and said they're pregaming. Ughhhhh. The game isn't even til 7. 😤

Uhmm he planning on having you drive their buzzed asses around??@jaycee17

@lildarebear, I'm so close to selling our 2 tickets if that's what he had in mind for the night.

@jaycee17, i cant stand when guys "pre-game" they think cause we're pregnant and cant drink they can have all the damn fun. Sorry but i dont tolerate buzzed/drunk guys in my car. And if im driving it will be dead ass silent. I hate being around those who cant handle their alcohol, gets me so stressed and agitated

@lildarebear, Yeah I'm the same way so I don't know what he's thinking. The whole idea of this game is just stressing me out now when it was supposed to be something fun. Really think I'm just gonna sell our tickets and get my money back.