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For some reason I'm kind of depressed and I cry here and there. . . We won't find out what the baby is until next…

For some reason I'm kind of depressed and I cry here and there. . . We won't find out what the baby is until next Saturday. . . But I'm sure we both seen what it was because that tech was such an idiot! I really wanted a girl since I was the only girl, and my mom abounded me when I was little. So I've always wanted to have a girl so I can give her everything I never had and do things with her my mom never did for me. . . And my boyfriend already has a son that's 4. . . But I'm pretty sure I'm having a boy. And I know it sounds horrible but it kind of makes me sad and I don't know why? I feel like a horrible person for being kinda sad.

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kittylovee

kat

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I would be so upset if they told me the wrong gender! I'm kind of over having a girl or boy. Just as long as my baby is healthy that's all that matters to me. I felt like I was being selfish. But I had 2 miscarriages so I told myself I need to be thankful. But I would love to have a girl, but I think it might be a boy. I find out next Saturday

haleymclain1121

Haley

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I for sure thought my baby was a boy!! I had 7 or 8 dreams that I was having a boy two & then when I was told boy twice I was so happy! I'm over the initial shock now, so I'm happy I'm having a girl now!

kittylovee

kat

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@haleymclain1121,

kittylovee

kat

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Well as long as your baby is healthy that's all that matters. I feel like when you want a boy you get a girl and when you want a girl you get a boy....

haleymclain1121

Haley

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Yes!

kittylovee

kat

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You found out it's a girl? @haleymclain1121

haleymclain1121

Haley

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Mines a girl :(

haleymclain1121

Haley

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@kittylovee, Yeah, I already told everybody that it's a boy so I'm praying that it's still a boy. I wish I would have waited to tell everybody until the 20 week scan just to be sure.

kittylovee

kat

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I'm kind of like you, I will be sad if it's a boy. But our reveal party is next Saturday. I think I might just pay for another ultrasound at a private place. @haleymclain1121

haleymclain1121

Haley

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I'm going to a private place to find out for sure today if I'm having a boy. Not sure why, but if it's a girl I will sad because I really want a boy. I was told boy twice, but I want to make sure.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I need to ask you guys something because I want to make sure I'm not crazy....

I need to ask you guys something because I want to make sure I'm not crazy.... I'm having my first child and I told my fiancé that I want him and my mom who's my best friend in the room with me when I deliver. My fiancé basically thinks it's childish for me to want my mom there for her first grandchild's birth.... he said he's never known anyone to have their parents in the room, he thinks it should just be him and I. But I've never known anyone to NOT want their mom there. Am I wrong for wanting my mom there? She's the only one who will understand what I'm going through or know what to do to help me, she's always been there for me. I need answers / opinions please. I'm so frustrated.