why do some of you put up with cheating? not only are they disrespecting you but also cheating your…

A lot of things are easier said than done

so you'd rather stay with someone who obviously doesn't love you, If they were able to lay with someone else? there are many options than staying.. @london1010

I'm not saying personally I'm just saying that these days a lot of things are more complicated than just black and white

everyone is different. and how everyone defines love is different

I'm sorry I rather be at my lowest, to have to ask others for help than have to stay in the same household as someone who disrespected me. @london1010

I wouldn't stand for it..but then again..there is different forms of cheating that some can get over easily. I don't judge anyone's relationship because I definitely don't need anyone judging mine.

I'm not trying to make you change your opinion I'm just stating mine...

being cheated on physically emotionally or mentally is not love. there's no if ands or buts. if you don't want to be with someone , leave them. men (&women;) have the option to speak about their problems first. @jadestarlight

nobody is asking you to stay in a relationship like that. or to change your position on how you feel. other people have different views you don't have to agree to respect their views. what you consider cheating I might not and vice versa.

@ftmommieoftwiinz, I don't feel like I'm judging. but I don't get why some ladies will keep asking us over and over and over on OUR opinion on what they should do. & it upsets me that they read our responses & do nothing about it. if you feel like you'll still stick around then don't make it public in 3-5 posts -___-

my question as to why they stay, is bc I keep reading the same post by the same person over and over. asking what they should do. they tell us all the negative things that are being done and said to them but they still ask what they should do. it doesn't make sense to me. I know many factors come into play maybe they don't have other family support or they aren't working but you can find your way out. bc the longer you stay the more disrespect you will get. alot of us on here are pregnant , it's a stress that shouldn't have to put up with @jadestarlight

lol I agree..if I caught my husband cheating..no doubt I'm leaving..It will be hard but I feel like I know my worth and if he feels like I'm not what he wants..he can go..I love him with all my heart..but I refuse to want someone who doesn't love me enough to stay faithful when I can.. plus I don't want to end up in jail lol

thank you. you said it perfectly @ftmommieoftwiinz

I agree @lucyyxoxo_ and despite all the bs they still love them it is a hard to walk away from a person you love despite alot of things they've done. and pregnant hormones make it more difficult. maybe they'll change, maybe this, maybe that. they will walk away when their ready. they ask for help sometimes they want someone to say say it will work etc.... I've been in bad relationships and watched my friends stay with jerks. I've stayed longer then I should have put up with more shit then I should of. not everyone can accept being alone is good. sometimes that person thats done you wrong was often times the only person in your corner so many other times before. i had one friend who constantly complained about her childs father. i finally said you know how i feel. i dont want to hear anything else in till your ready to leave him but your choosing to stay in that mess.

like @ftmommieoftwiinz mentioned. I just hope they know they are worth so much more.. @jadestarlight

every situation is different and it isn't always that easy to leave especially if there are children involved. from my personal experience before my husband and I were married, we weren't exactly together, he was doing his thing as so was I, and there was a time when we were together and he did cheat. after awhile we decided to be together for our son and work it out the best. cheating doesn't mean you don't love someone but sometimes its a sickness. my husband goes to therapy, and the man says that some people are just addicted to sex no matter who they get it from, so sometimes it's a problem and not that they don't love you, if that makes sense. but now we're married, happy and so far nothing has happened and my husband has explained to me over and over again that he loves me even if he was to do that but I wouldn't be with him if he was to do that while we're married.