im having such a hard time . my babys dad is always a fucking douche telling me if i leave him hes going to get someone else in his house or hes going to fuck all these bitches if i leave . i feel so unwanted by him. and he smokes and i dont think he will ever stop and i dont want my daughter around that shiiit . im actaully so hurt by some of the things he says too me. we live with eachother and barley talk or anything . we are both unhapppy but i feel like the only reason he is staying with me is so he can see his daughter so he doesnt have to do supervison .. supervision would b because idk how he would take care of her . he has never had a baby and he SMOKES ... IDK WHAT TO DO .
thank you @navywifej i even told him i think we need to jus move on and try and b happy
using me for what tho ? i have nothing ! @lucyyxoxo_ besides he has no liscense so i drive him every where
its not worth staying love, i grew up in a broken home with parents fighting all the time cheating and i went on depression mode, i know you love him and i know for sure it hurts to leave but try your best to move on you and your baby are worth so much more ❣
it sounds like he's just using you. and if he's being so straight forward on what he'll do when you leave, I can only imagine what he's doing now..
he tells me he wants a girlfriend that does stuff and he tells me there is no point of being with me cause he doesnt get laid but for me its so uncomfortable !!!! @lucyyxoxo_ @navywifej
leave him. you and your baby don't need that. if he wants to see her then he will make a conscious effort to do so. if he doesn't make that effort then you know where he stands as a parent and you can move on and find someone who wants to be her father. my sister went through the same thing and now she's waiting to get the sperm donors parental rights revoked so that her soon to be husband can adopt her son
everyone has asked me the same thinng idk why i stay i love him but idk why he treats me like im jus a piece of dirt he doesnt apperiacte anything !
thats horrible, have you asked him what he wants to do so you guys can move forward peacefully
honestly? just leave him. there seems to be no reason to stay, because a child is not going to grow up in a healthy environment if you stay.
you just wrote it yourself love.