When people start telling me "oh you're gonna need more diapers" or "it's so hard and you're never gonna sleep" or anything to do with my baby, I instantly start turning into a momma bear. my fiance just kinda shuts up and listens to me. I can't help it, but it seriously irritates me people telling me what to do with my baby. like back up, and GTFO! anyone else like this?
and they are probably thinking they were helping, but it's super intimidating and not to mention annoying. everyone has to learn how to do themselves.
I felt like that when it came to breast feeding. my milk didn't come right away. most of the women on my bf's side are big breasted (I'm not) & at the hospital they kept saying my baby was starving that I should just give him formula & I was adamant that I wasnt. I didn't let it show when they were around but I wanted to cry. it was frustrating already I didn't need their shit too ..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.
I Have a question mommies I’m a First Time Mom and everyone keeps saying when my baby get here there gonna take my baby but I don’t trust people like that and I promise I’m not trying to be mean but I don’t want anyone to have a my baby and I know people are going to ask so my question is How do you say no without being mean ?🤔 I don’t even plan on letting my child spend the night with people when he gets older it’s just so much happen to me as a kid and I don’t want that for my baby
So I keep feeling these lil sharp pains on my right side. You do get pains like that before you start your period right.? Remember I had that dark brown spotting for a few hours last month on the 22. My period suppose to start today.
I just say "do you have anything positive to say to me?" Then I walk away. Lol Real snarky and passive aggressive I know but it gets the point across.