When people start telling me "oh you're gonna need more diapers" or "it's so hard and you're never gonna sleep" or anything to do with my baby, I instantly start turning into a momma bear. my fiance just kinda shuts up and listens to me. I can't help it, but it seriously irritates me people telling me what to do with my baby. like back up, and GTFO! anyone else like this?
and they are probably thinking they were helping, but it's super intimidating and not to mention annoying. everyone has to learn how to do themselves.
I felt like that when it came to breast feeding. my milk didn't come right away. most of the women on my bf's side are big breasted (I'm not) & at the hospital they kept saying my baby was starving that I should just give him formula & I was adamant that I wasnt. I didn't let it show when they were around but I wanted to cry. it was frustrating already I didn't need their shit too ..
I just say "do you have anything positive to say to me?" Then I walk away. Lol Real snarky and passive aggressive I know but it gets the point across.