OK so I work a minimum wage job that has no maternity program. when it's time to leave to have my baby I will be on my own to pay all of our bills. keep in mind that my three youngest are 4,3,2 and I provide for them. A co-worker asked me whyni didn't do a gofundme account to help with the two months ID be off. but I find that alittle weird and I feel like you get looked down on for asking for help. this was not a planned pregnancy but we treat our daughter like a gift from God. what are yalls opinion on things like that?
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I've never seen gofundme accounts for maternity leave expenses. I've always seen it for medical conditions. Personally I wouldn't do it @jnh199243
@pure_imagination, yea see that was my thought when the coworker brought it up but there's actually a lot of women who use it to get help for maternity leave and expenses. I feel like it would be weird and akward lol. it was weird for her to bring it up to me lol
Errrr I dont know about a gofundme account for that. I know a lot of people who do that get a lot of negative upset simply because the site is meant more for fundraising for an organization or for those with terminal illness. I would talk to WIC or Job and Family Services and see if they can help during that short time and give you options of who can help you. Hope this helps out just a little
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
Is it weird that I get annoyed at the thought of people helping me when baby is home? People ask me this all the time. My SO and I plan to share night shifts, etc. Am I stubborn? It's our kid so I feel like we can do it on our own👍🏼 lol.
First dance song
Oh just said ask on your baby s*** for first dance songs ? I was like you mean my baby app? lol haha. So... First dance song help please ?
I don't plan to make one. I wanted to see opinions of others. I did see a few of them and apparently they did a thing on a show on Hallmark about a woman who did it too. she got a lot of criticism