Is My Husband Hiding Something or Am I Overreacting?

I would ask at first and he still do it... then I look

yes it does seem really sketchy, but he maybe planning a surprise for you or baby that he doesnt want you to know about like a "push present" my husband did that for the birth of our 2nd child he got me another concealed pistol (dont worry ive been trained since i was 5 and licensed and everything) (he did it so i had protection here at home and while out) and i thought the same maybe he doesnt wanna bother you since its getting towards the end and you need your rest id confront him so it doesnt get blown up wrong

Try asking. I always go under the covers on my phone and I'm usually playing a game or something. i'll end up falling asleep with the covers over my face too because if my so is watching TV or playing a game, I can't fall asleep with the light of the TV.

He never does things that sweet..

That and he also doesnt expect me to lay in bed or rest.. If he has to work I have to be moving around.. instead of like any other husband that would say Just go back to sleep youll be okay, He made it a competition that he doesnt have the choice to sleep in and I do when I told him Ive been up since 1 am..

Lately hes just.. snippy, and its hurting me. I asked if I could come into the bathroom just now to pee, and he paused, then said I guess, had his phone in the shower, and I d k what hes doing.

Its bad enough hes a soldier thats hardly home all day and then has drills now and then and then has to go on a 9 month tour after the babies born.. Hes only making it so much easier for depression to get a hold of me and Honestly I think it already has. I feel ugly..

In my experience under the cover hiding the phone are not good.. Follow your gut and address it ur gut is always right it's ur head and heart that tell u different .. It is very ok for u to look my husband and I share a fb have each other's passcodes etc .. He had one the other day I didn't know I called him he gave it to me .. In a marriage u both should be comfortable asking and not hiding ..

He has time to message other people during the day but not reapond to me.. his wife.

@gingermama, yup phone in shower 🙈 u already know adress it or look .. He's taking it in the shower so u won't look when he is in there

And your not ugly!!!!! Stop that pregancy is a beautiful thing ur growing a life that's beautiful in itself

Address it momma. I've read the comments and it just seems like he's letting himself become super distant. Ask him and talk and let him know how it's making you feel. Better to question rather than just assume. I hope things aren't what they seem and that it all gets better. It's illegal to cheat in the military by the way.

I just opened up about it, he says hes doing mothing theres nothing to worry about hes in bed with me every night he wont go anywhere.. But why is he not as afdectionate anymore

is it cause Im pregnant? ..

I bet its his fucking mother downstairs visiting. Of course they can talk. But I get up to talk in the morning and its a sin.

This makes me think can I really be a mom.. I cant even keep him happy apparently. I try. I do laundry and dishes I make food, Ive been a little forgetfull sometimes but I dont mean to be. I make sure towels are in the bathroom his clothes are clean I keep the living room clean and I dont bother him when he comes home from work..

I take care of the dog.

Pose all those questions to him. Don't let your emotions take over though. Him saying "it's nothing" and just because he's in bed with you every night doesn't mean a thing. There's still a strain in your relationship. But momma I will say, don't let yourself stress it too much. Make sure you feel good about yourself and your ability to take care of your little one. You're beautiful and strong and as your husband he ought to not take you for granted. At all

☝🏼️ agree with that .. Just becasue he's in bed every night doesn't mean a darn thing

It does seem a bit sketchy but like a previous poster said maybe he is planning something for you. I would straight up ask him, tell him that you feel that he's been distant and see if he gets defensive or something

I did. He said theres nothing to worry about and that he will not be going anywhere, that hes not talking to anyone else, and that he loves me.. I just wish hed be a bit more affectionate.