Is It Wrong to Protect My Baby from Toxic Family Members?

same boat here my friend I don't think your wrong but my situation is extremely similar my only difference is we live on our own

You need to do what's right for your son.. have you try to get into housing maybe its time to get your own place...just saying don't want to sound mean

@braxtonsmommy621, it's bullshit isn't it? I am a mother and if I don't feel like you are a good person in my child's life you are cut. But it really irks me when people get one side of the story and you are made out to be the big bad wolf. It's pissing me off

@soontobemamaof7, I own my own house . But it has 6 bedrooms and I myself and my fiancé wouldn't fill all the rooms. So my mother lives with me. I only moved in with his grandparents because he wanted to because he wasn't raised around people who are adamant on voicing opinions. Everything is fine where I'm at now.

@lexximarie, no it really is bullshit I just got lucky in a away because he kind of gets his mom isn't a good person but I still have to be nice and invite her to things which whatever but she is talking about oh yeah I'm going to make a room for him here and all kinds of plans like I am ever going to leave him with her EVER ha I laugh every time and just change the subject like I'm really going to leave my son with an alcoholic drugged out adult with no job and lives with a room mate HAHA! yeah okay

@braxtonsmommy621, I totally get where you are coming from. His grandma is like "it's a boy" on all of my fiances pictures. She fully assumes that I will be getting the baby boy stuff that she bought for the child in her care. What if my child isn't a boy? What if it's a girl? To tell me I better not have a girl 0-0. Tf? And she don't like little girls. It irritates me. And his mom she's been on a loop with over dosing pills. She's wrecked so many cars due to it. Nearly killed herself because of it. And I've watched. We had to go pick her up FROM A CAR WRECK DUE TO PILLS. And yet they all expect this baby to be staying with them . Over my dead fucking body.

Right! people amaze me they really do like you really think it is okay to leave an infant in your care if you were watching someone else doing it you would be talking shit but because its you its okay yeah you look just as stupid as the other people you're talking shit about like grow up and then wants to say some shit about oh but your mom can have him all the time when he is here well I mean yeah my mom is a preschool teacher has been for 15 years and drinks wine on Fridays seriously I would leave my kid with my mother at any moment on the other hand I wouldn't ask you to watch my damn dogs for a few hours tf you think

Ok long as all is good

@braxtonsmommy621, I feel the same exact way about them !

My mum is a piece of crap druggie. I dropped her out of our lives. Sometimes it's for the best.

Keep the baby away. Unless you will be there at all times to watch them, and follow them wherever they go keep the baby away, and if you really nessicarily have to, report her for drugs, report the uncles, etc. Your husband should try thinking without emotions.. Hes willing to endanger his child with a druggie grandmother and swindling uncles, and a shit great grandma with a shit attitude and influence. Thats what I got from the paragraph. If I am wrong I apologize, but I do hope the entire situation is okay now.

I feel the same way my finances family is completely worthless they won't help us with anything prolly won't even get us anything for the baby shower not to mention my mother in law has a crap ton of weirdos in and out of her place and a known child molester living with her my kids aren't allowed their cause of the child molester and neither will my baby be allowed their not to mention my nieces and nephews live their and always have bugs it's so gross

It is absolutely not wrong. My bf's family has fucked us over in many ways too. His mom told me to give our baby up for adoption or else he would never have a good life, and she told me to do so without telling my bf (her son). She said "you aren't married so you don't have to tell him anything." His parents are divorced but over on his dad's side it's even worse, his dad is a huge prescription drug addict that refuses to admit it or get help, he goes to different hospitals every other day complaining of random pain just to get pain medicine. It's disgusting. And his step mother is a piece of trash to say the least. We completely cut off his moms side of the family recently including his sister who is actually my age. We're done with his dad too, we just have to get some stuff out of his garage that we left there months ago. I hate that my baby won't have grandparents on his dad's side of the family at all, I had always looked forward to our baby having a huge family because I didn't. But now that won't happen. I feel sad about it but it's definitely for the best, as are your reasons!

Even if it hurts feelings along the way, I don't care one bit as long as it's keeping my baby safe

my mother is on pills and some other very hard stuff and even tried to get my fiancé to smoke crack with her and her husband. so she's out of my life, my father is very disrespectful to my fiancé and i dont like it. i am never rude to his druggie girlfriends so he is out too.