One of my friends from highschool lost her baby while she was giving birth...her heart stopped beating and she was stillborn. Is it normal for me to be terrified of labor now? As I've gotten closer to my due date all I can think about is how I wont be able to protect her anymore...which I still can but she won't be in my belly and it makes me want to cry. 😓 Does anyone else feel this way?
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unfortunately it does happen its extremely uncommon tho .. but you can't think that way u have to try to remain as positive as you can
Pray think positive okay that's the best you can do right now don't stress your body enjoy your moments
Yeah just pushing puts stress on the baby I couldn't imagine two days of labor on the little heart 😔💔
@twinmama510, that's exactly what I said, she delivered at a really upscale hospital...one of the best I know of in my state. It kills me. And @rockysmommy I kept hoping she would but she didn't and I just never wanted to be insensitive and ask, but it has made me scared 😓 I figured it was the stress
Shouldn't they have to explain what happened :( maybe it was just too stressful on the baby being in labor for that long...
Maybe it was too much stress on the baby. I just wonder why they wouldn't have taken the baby sooner. Two days is a long time to labor. I'm so sorry. That's terrible.
Me too! So far he's super healthy and I want him to stay that way and come out healthy. I couldn't imagine going through all this to him being hurt or worse... It would break my heart..
@rockysmommy, exactly! I just want her to be a healthy little baby and be okay!
@twinmama510, she was in labor for almost two days and then had an emergency c-section, they didn't really explain what happened and that has made it worse!
@mimiz, I just feel like my time to feel her little kicks and wiggles has run out so fast and it's weighing on me 😭 I love her so much I'm just hoping everything will go okay
I completely agree I'm terrified like if a c-section makes it better for her to live, then do that. It's both the same to me I'm bringing a life into the world either way I just don't want anything to happen to my baby boy.
Do they know why her baby's heart stopped? I'm terrified of something being wrong or going wrong. I try to let my excitement of meeting my girls outweigh the anxieties.
It's completely normal to be paranoid but try your best to think positive
Omg that's so scary and heartbreaking! Its my biggest fear to lose my baby while still in the womb or after he's born. But I don't focus on those type of thoughts because I don't want to freak myself out.