Please ladies, tell me if I'm overreacting. This post may be long but I'll try my best to get to the point.
I've been with my BF for almost 3 years. When we first met he was well driven, he had a car, he was dedicated to working, he was in scjool for mechanics and he wasn't the best looking but he was still sort of in shape. When we started dating things started spiraling downhill. He quit his job. He sold his truck and bought a shitty car from a friend that I knew for a fact would break down in less than a month but he didn't listen and did it anyway. He loves cars. Anything that has to do with cars and racing and whatever he enjoys talking about it. He dropped out of school and basically did nothing for awhile. I started getting fed up because we couldn't have a conversation if it wasn't about car or his friends and their cars etc. So we broke up. After about a month he started working again and we got back together. He ended up moving in with me and my parents before we hit the year mark because his mother is an alcoholic. He still live with us today, he doesn't pay bills at all. We had a baby and he's only working because my dad is offering him work. We barely talk about anything. I love him but im tired of repeating myself about the same things "get a job" "go to school" "get a car" "you need to move out" etc. Our son is going to be three months and he has barely helped. He doesn't wake up at all during the night unless I force him too. I work as a server and I go to school and I still come home to do everything with our son. I'm fed up and broke up with him. Was I wrong to leave him? There's only so much a woman can take. And I need to start thinking about myself and my son.
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You need to do what is best for you and your son. Don't stay with someone because you feel you have to or you feel guilty. You did the right thing, you want your son to grow up around responsible people who can take care of themselves and their own. Not someone with no ambition.
your welcome! and yeah you need to even he refuses tell him he is either out by tonight or he sleeps on the couch. and yeah if he gives u shit tell him he has less than 30 days to get out. and i know girl same with all us moms. we can only take so much @alexaviersmommy007
there's only so much a woman can take and this woman has taken in enough.
thank you!!! @mommy_of_two1994 it's nice to talk to someone about this. I'm gunna kick him to couch again this time and if he gives me shit then fuck the 30 days I want him out by tomorrow.
hell no! tell him until he gets a real job and can be a supporting man on his own he is to sleep on the couch where he belongs. just put your foot down and tell him youre done with his excuses. my babys father tried to give me that excuse after cheating (it was a year ago) and still expected to sleep on my bed and i made him sleep on my couch until he moved out. you should not be sleeping on the couch you are the mother of his child. thats disrespectful of him -_- @alexaviersmommy007
we currently are not together. but he still wants to sleep in my bed instead of the couch -.- he gave me shit about going to the couch. I'm so over it.
@mommy_of_two1994, I agree completely. I've told him that but he somehow tries to make it seem like I'm unsupportive and I'm supposed to help him and stuff but what more can I do?? He got paid $500 on friday and by Sunday he had 70$ left? Wtffffffff. Where the money went I have NO IDEA! he bought small cans of formula and that's it. How am I supposed to feel comfortable with a man who can't even financially support himself? He has 30 days to get his shit straight or I'm sending him back to his mothers.
no you are not wrong. he needs to get his shit together because hes not really doing anything or doing anything to better his life and for you and your baby. i say let him get his shit together before you and him take anything anymore further. he needs to be on his feet where he has his things situated. he needs go get up and get an actual job himself that he took the time to look for. @alexaviersmommy007
@taestasia, that's what I said. But there's always an excuse
@alexaviersmommy007, No you are not wrong he needs to get his shit together and he's only bringing you down with him
No You Weren't Wrong You Have Someone Else Looking Up 2 You ! You Deserve A Man That Will Treat You Like A Queen & Show Your SON The Best Way 2 Be If He Can't Do That Then Oh Well His Loss Not Yours