@sam.g, hmmm i will see how preseed works first

@hermommy, thanks yeah i take prenatal vitamins and vitex every morning and my bf likes using lub but im thinking the kind we use (ky) is harming the sperm. but yes my next buy is a basal thermometer

Coconut oil is totally safe to use as lube.

@brooknicole I totally understand, Pressed is mostly for I'm so sorry if this sounds gross lol, but for like if you dont get wet, the wetness that area produces is normally what carries the sperm to the egg. Start taking prenatal for in case it's the fact your body just isn't ready, that'll help baby stick also, buy a basal body thermometer that is beyond easy to track if your temp spikes your ovulating

@hermommy, lolol yeah i needed more information before I did that. but hey im will to do about anything that works right about now.

yeah lol dont stick coconut oil in your crotch. Really not a good idea

@hermommy, @mommarodey ok thank you i wasn't for sure. im in all types of ttc groups and it was brought up i was a bit sceptical on the coconut oil so ill just stick to preseed.

I've never heard that, Pressed is what helps the sperm make it to the egg. I had my fertility specialist reccomend pressed so I'm guessing it works just fine

So from what I understand, any lubricant can hinder sperm. Just because it's not something the body produces naturally. But pre-seed is so highly recommended because it's been proven to harm less sperm than other lubricants might. My husband and I used pre-seed and got pregnant right away. My last BC pill was October 12 and we got our positive test on November 16. So yes, it could have been a lot of things but I do think using pre-seed helped us conceive way faster than we otherwise might have. Because I wasn't tracking temperature or any of that sort of thing. But it worked. :)