with my second I was in the process of getting divorced and my ex was stationed in North Carolina at the time so I just had my mom and my older sister. I wanted my younger sister there too but she doesn't do good with stuff.
@finallypink429, that was my thoughts exactly! I've had a rough pregnancy with their harassment and I want this to be a bonding experience for my child & I -- no stress involved. Thank you!!!!!
The baby's "sperm donor" would have if I had told him. He's not a good guy at all and I decided I wanted to have a good and happy experience, so I had it made known the only people allowed to visit me or be with me were my parents. Don't do something you aren't comfortable with, this time is about you and baby ❤️
@finallypink429, did the baby's father or family want to be involved? Mine do but they've been harassing me and really nasty with me during my entire pregnancy. I'm super high risk & the father has not showed up to when I was hospitalized & they were looking to induce me if I didn't get my BP under control. I'm due in a month and do not want them in the delivery room but when I told the father that he screenshots the convo & uploads to FB to start drama. Just seeing people's opinion over it and making sure I'm not completely wrong for only having my mother in the delivery room since she's been my support since day 1
I plan on going alone this time. My mom has to watch my daughter so she can't come but you'd actually be surprised how peaceful it is. I was in L&D alone for about 2 hours last night and that was the most peace I've had in days lol.