I've been pretty silent for a weeks now. reality has hit and I am over my initial panic. I know I have complications. I have an idea of what to somewhat expect. I have left it all in God's hands because I can do nothing. Hubby and I still have not talked about it. That will come in time. Right now I just have questions that seem to have no real answers. Having a fairly common "uncommon" complication is difficult to get answers with. 1% of babies seems to still be a lot of babies when you Google stuff. And if you have complicated diagnosis DO NOT GOOGLE! Google is NOT your friend. It seems to be the biggest pessimistic voice out there. We are taking things one day at a time and I'm cherishing every day I get her. God is still good!