I need help!! My in laws are ruining my marriage. I love my husband so much and I don't even want to…
I need help!! My in laws are ruining my marriage. I love my husband so much and I don't even want to think about life without him. But we are constantly fighting about shit his mom does and says. At this point it would be easier to be apart but I don't want to. I need advice on how to keep my family together
Carla Martinez·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (17 нед.)
I'm so sorry....I know how hard that could be. My husband and I were going through a lot because his mom was always in our business or saying some stupid shit. He wouldn't say anything until it got to much for him. He finally told her to stay away from us and that he isn't going to lose his family because of her. We had to sit down and talk to her and tell her how we are feeling. It's not completely good but we also learned to distance ourselves from her and a lot people who cause drama to our lives. It does suck at times to be away but it's been so much better for our marriage and our family.
👣Sabrina Suarez💙·
It depends on the situation your live about is in, do you guys live all together? if so plan a hour away and talk to him let him know how you feel, if he loves you the way he should he should understand were your coming from and respect your feelings, show him you love him but he's now having a family with you and if there's altercation going on, he needs to stick by your side and work with you both I know how it could be, I had to do the same.
Ginny Klith·
Мама дочки-младенца
It's so hard. I feel like trying to get along with his mom would help so much. But I can't seem to forget the fact she is such a manipulative liar. She's not a person I want my daughter looking up to. My husband really wants our daughter to know his parents which I get. But I don't like who they are. I don't know how to find the middle grounds. @lilfrankiesmommy @baby1004
👣Sabrina Suarez💙·
@ginnyklith, I understand but sometimes we don't agree peoples personality but in this situation it may be easier to be the bigger person and set a lunch date with your mother in law and tell her you don't wanna keep bumping heads and you want you both to be able to get along and respect one another, at the end of the day neither one of you are gonna be out the babies life your her mother and that's her grandmother so its best to get along & be able to set good examples for your daughter tell her you want a happy family not a family that's made into parts, she and you both need some girl time it may help. I'm here if you need me😊