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so for my ob I only get to see my baby three times the first time I was 8 weeks the next time will be when I find the…

so for my ob I only get to see my baby three times the first time I was 8 weeks the next time will be when I find the sex of the baby and then one more time for my third trimester. when I go and see my doctor I wait over an hour just to be seen and then when I do fet back there I still have to wait for her and when she finally comes in its like she is rushing me oit the door. its bad enough I dont get to really see my baby and all my friends that are pregnant are always seeing there little one bit pushing me out the door? Im scared for when the baby comes whats going to happen and am I going to be seen bec even in the hospital they dont seem to care. I dont know what to do. im 15 weeks pregnant and my mom said I should just try her one more time but even if I do that and go somewhere else I would be with a whole new doctor and what if I dont like them?

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melissah

Melissa

find a midwife instead of ob.

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mommy23lovebug23

AubrieВ ожидании первенца

All of my friends are in Phoenix I'm in Tucson..

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sam.g

Sam G.В ожидании первенца

You can ask friends and others for OB recommendations. I learned in my class last night that if you cannot list five things you like about your doc, you should switch.

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mommy23lovebug23

AubrieВ ожидании первенца

ok I was not to for sure cuz my mom always had an ultrasound with my baby brother and sister every time she saw the doctor it seemed she would have one. and nothing was wrong tell the end

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missalexisnicole

AlexМама двоих (младенец)

People who see their babies more usually go to a special place and pay for it

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missalexisnicole

AlexМама двоих (младенец)

2-3 ultrasounds are usually how it goes. Unless you have complications or you're high risk. I had 10 ultrasounds because I was high risk in the beginning then I ended up having complications. Then because I was overdue. But the usual is 2-3.

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mommy23lovebug23

AubrieВ ожидании первенца

I am so sorry for your loss. I have to take a test to see if mine is ok bec of the medication I was on before we new I was pregnant. And its scaring me to know something can be wrong.

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winsy13

Kylie Winsor

I only got to see my baby twice technically. I had a stillborn but I got to see my baby @ 19 weeks and then my next ultrasound was scheduled for 36 weeks but I never made it. I got to 27 weeks and lost her

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mommy23lovebug23

AubrieВ ожидании первенца

I don't really like this. At least I get to hear the heart beat when ever bec I have a Doppler that my mother got me so I can keep an eye out on the baby. but not seeing my little one is driving me crazy.

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mommyale3

AlexandriaauhhМама дочки (2 года)

trust me same way I only saw my baby at 6 weeks n am 20 weeks n am berly gonna see my baby for the second time it all depends who ur doctor is

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