Alauras one year checkup up went good! She's in the 50th percentile for weight and height and the 25th percentile for head circumference. Development delays are still here of course but all is well for now! We also got a call from neurology, after a year we Finally have a solid answer on why Alaura has all her issues. After going back through my pregnancy and the due dates and birth it has finally been determined (on paper) that Alaura was taken a month to soon. My first obgyn bumped her due date up way to far based on her size, Shawn was 9 pounds so Alaura was just going to be big like him. So Alauras "adjusted" age is actually 11 months, she was a preemie technically! They also believe the cord wrapped around her neck and her heart rate dropping consistently the three hours I pushed played a part of it. So that's that! It's nice to finally have a legit answer. Now we can move forward without the wandering!
@queeneden, honestly I'm not sure.. We've decided at this point in time we aren't going to pursue it, Alaura has had enough traumatic things happen to her.. some things are just better left the way they are