@wrap_with_halie, I am sorry about that, that is so ridiculous, he cheated on you, lied on you and even to the girl, (she thinks you guys broke up) but its up to you if you can forgive him and can give him a chance to work things out, for your family.....But you better choose you think is best for your kids :-) just be strong....

if he wont do it in front of you .. id say its cheating

Anything that your SO thinks he needs to hide..

even hiding convos and holding hands is cheating. you don't have to kiss or have sex to cheat. infidelity of the heart is cheating too

And the thing is... Is he is still in a relationship with her still and now he is realizing he messed up really bad and he's wanting his family back and he's wanting to work things back out with me.

Yes, the father of both my babies told me he didn't cheat on me bcuz he never did anything with her. But all of a sudden he had to have his phone charger next to him (went out of the way and bought an extension cord) freaked out when I went to go change the song on his phone and was always coming up with excuses to leave around midnight (that's what time she got off work). Then told me he wanted me to stay with my mom for a bit bcuz he was stressed out and was feeling angry all the time and didn't want to take it out on our daughter and I (not that he would have hit us or anything).... All of a sudden he switched to second shift (that's the shift she works)..... He picked us up from my mom's one day and told me he bought two tickets for him and our daughter to go to Christmas at the Zoo but really he bought 4 for him our daughter her and her daughter. A week later I found out that this woman was at MY apartment so I messaged her on Facebook (I know I shouldn't have done that but I was so hurt and mad) and told her "thanks for ruining my family" and that I hope she isn't dumb and realizes he's a liar and a cheater. Well she wrote back and said he didn't cheat on me with her since him and I had been broken up for awhile which was not the case at all. We hadn't broken up at all. Not once!

Anything he hides from you.

What @babes87101116 said. I consider those things cheating but I think men just consider the actual act of penis into vagina.

Thank you! I wish guys could look at it that way.

entertaining another person with constant communication even when around you, flirting, inappropriate conversations, having feelings for another, touching, kissing, and any other sexual or intimate act

Sexting or emailing inappropriate things to someone other than you, sending pics, or actually committing sexual acts with someone else.

touching, hugging, kissing, sex, anything that you basically hide from your SO that happened with another person, even if its flirting.