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So wondering if any other moms going through the same thing.... My daughter and son have the same father my daughter is…

So wondering if any other moms going through the same thing.... My daughter and son have the same father my daughter is almost 3 and my son will be here in July... I have done everything but beg this man to spend time with his daughter but it seems like when we didn't work out he left her too, I don't want my babies to be hurt or feel their father doesn't want them he hasn't supported my daughter ( why would you get pregnant by him again complete laps in judgement and when you still love someone I'm human). But I just don't know what to do anymore it's like I'm the only one who communicates do I just stop not keep them from him but make him be the one to communicate with me to see them, it feels like he doesn't even care he visits with her when it convenient for him but in my eyes that's not a parent. He has other children and spends time with them and post pictures of them on social media but none of my daughter and it kind of upsets me but I know I love my children more than life itself I just can't see how their father doesn't.

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bianca_rose

BiancaМама сына (7 лет), беременна (33 нед.)

I agree w/@lovemyfamily31 I know it hurts but you can't force someone to be a parent

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shannon

I went threw the same thing with my daughter's dad, he only talked to her if it was convenient for him. an his way of doing it was talking to her like one of his friends.. I ended up just letting him be, an didn't push it. I just left it up to him.. can't make a grown man grow up and be responsible if he don't want to. it's messed up they do it for their other kids but it the end its his loss not yours.

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