Man .... This head home for me ! It's my everyday . My sons father (first born) comes around when he…

Man .... This head home for me ! It's my everyday . My sons father (first born) comes around when he wants . Calls when he wants . Doesn't put a dime into anything . Mind you I'm unemployed guys ! I have a 7 year old birthday party coming up ! Did his father call me yet to ask did his son need anything ? Nope ! Did he call & say how much this gonna cost ? Nope ! He need money ? Nope ! Not once ! My son gets a visit once a month from him . A phone call every now & then . For 7 years guys ! My sons father has put up jack shit for him . Now , I know a lot of people say don't bash ya BD cuz you're the one who laid down with this man & had his baby . Why yes . That is so true dear , but mind you , this "man" that I laid up with was a "man" when we had sex . He finds out you're having his baby & he decides he wants to act like one . These men out here act like one thing till he gotta be an adult ! People change & that's what a lot of people don't realize ! His father wasn't like this before I got pregnant ! Promised me the world ! Until the time came ...& everything he promised to me slipped tf away . & it never meant anything . So yes . I have a right to be angry & I have right to keep my child out of harms way ! No one (INCLUDING HIS FATHER) is gonna continue walking in & out of his life !! & I mean it !